I don't know if you can ever do that. I think that romance is sort of something that changes couple to couple. What you need in a...partner isn't what Naruto needed in his marriage.

You're redirecting again. [ She knows he's playing dumb. ] See, I'm really bad at this, I still can't entirely figure out when to push and when to let it be with you. [ Though she can more than she'll let on right now, which is to say, she knows she hasn't pushed him too far just yet. ]