She was never a pain in my ass, really. [the tiniest hint of humor here] Now she is, sure, [it's quickly gone] but that's on me. Maybe not all me, but not on her.

I was a pain in a lot of people's asses, too. Thought I had all the answers.

[she hears had. doesn't want to press. proceeds lightly rather than just asking what happened. if the "had" means what she thinks it does.]

Did you ever get along?