Please reflect on this incident and determine how you would handle it if you were to alter your behavior at each comment along the way. i.e., rewrite each comment as if that were the point you realized you should approach it differently.
I also ask Xiu Ya, with the greatest respect, also to reflect on how she can help your cultivation in this world with people whose cultural norms including etiquette differ so greatly from those she knows while you work on the above.
Please also reflect on how you will change your behavior so that you will 'do better' in the future.
Once you have completed those two tasks, you may come over, and we will discuss them.
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I also ask Xiu Ya, with the greatest respect, also to reflect on how she can help your cultivation in this world with people whose cultural norms including etiquette differ so greatly from those she knows while you work on the above.
Please also reflect on how you will change your behavior so that you will 'do better' in the future.
Once you have completed those two tasks, you may come over, and we will discuss them.