I totally get what you mean. If you're so busy masking who you are, you can't help but still think that's the way to get on better here. I just sort of did the opposite.

[Luz absolutely could sympathize with being a people pleaser and wouldn't berate her for something she also suffered from].

Well sure! I've seen several worlds and seen so many people, so it would have to be something pretty out there for me to not have heard before. But I think because of your whole family situation, I can see why you'd be careful to edit yourself,

[Luz knew if she had that sort of life she'd be just as hesitant and would want someone she could talk to about it].

Ah. Yeah. That's a factor too. The timing definitely matters.

[Luz could certainly remember THAT funeral, and preferred not to think about it too much].

Please do!