text | anonymous

[unphase]

Do you think it's possible to be in love with two people at once?

I can't be the only one this has happened to.

[Edited to add!]

One of them is here, the other is back home.

Comments

text; anonymous

[psychopepsquad]

I'm finding myself in a similar situation.

[unphase]

I'm sorry. It's awful, isn't it? I feel like I'm being torn in two, but I can't stop loving them both.

text; anonymous

[convene]

[He's figured out the anonymous feature. Take that technology.]

I'm in a similar situation. It's rather complicated, isn't it?

text; anonymous

[faceblocks]

i wouldnt say love but like sounds too idk
not really right either

same for me: ones here ones not

[psychopepsquad]

It's less easy that things are going rough with one of them. I still love them, but I just wish I could trust them.

Have you talked to either of them?

[Text] username: justanadventurer

[aetherweaver]

Love doesn't have to be just between two people, you know.

Normally you'd get the other person's consent first, but you kind of can't in this situation...

But it's totally normal to love more than one person. You're not weird or wrong for feeling that way.

( text | un: alucard )

[ananym]

I don't think it's particularly unusual.

Text; un: anonymous

[survivalthroughhate]

Oh completely. I've only ever loved two men in my entire life and both of them are here right now in Trench. It's caused me no small headache trying to figure things out.

text | anonymous

[azurestar]

i've kinda got the same sitch

with more than two people before, too

it totally sucks but i think it's normal

( TXT; UN: BOMBSHELL )

[opheliac]

hahahha wow!!! looks like a lot of u sure are in a pickle huh?
thats why i said in someone elses thing that love stinks.
dont do it.

text; anonymous

[faceblocks]

[to be fair this is not terrible advice from every angle. love stinks? nah. there are a ton of loves that don't stink and being in love doesn't either. but avoiding romantic entanglements completely? likely in her own best interest for a while, considering the mess she's made already. no need to make it worse. put all that shit on pause. so.]

yeah im just gonna focus on other stuff
and keep it at like
the friends kind of like
not doing it

thanks

[opheliac]

np anonymous.
look from what ive been hearing?
this place can get CRAZY!!!
so why add more to it?
unless ure me. b/c i like wrecking havoc.
and ure not me.

[unphase]

The one from my world...our relationship is already troubled as I think he also has feelings for another woman.

I have yet to broach the subject with the one I love here. I don't know how well it would be taken.

And love is hard to maintain without trust. Speaking from experience.

[unphase]

[while for her, this technology is positively ancient. but at least it has the anonymous feature?]

Very much so. I know I need to say something, but I don't even know how to start. Have you tried to say anything?

[unphase]

Like can mean a variety of things. But it also often seems inadequate.

Were you planning on saying anything to the one you like here?

[unphase]

I do. It's not uncommon where I come from. But it does seem uncommon where others do.

No, I can't. It doesn't help that I feel he loves someone else as well and has yet to admit it too himself or me.

All right. I just don't want to get the woman I love here to feel hurt or uncertain. Because I do love her, so much, and I want her to be able to trust me and how I feel about her.

[unphase]

It's not? Then, how do I explain it to her. The one who is here.

[unphase]

Do both of those men know how you feel about them?

[unphase]

You have my sympathies. Loving more than one person is a strain. Do you constantly second-guess your actions, wondering if you're doing the right thing by all of them?

It does seem far more common than I'd expected. I'd recommend we start a support group, but that would mean coming off of anonymous, which I'd rather not.

[unphase]

Love is the most important thing one can feel for another.
Despite its headaches, I don't want to not love.
I don't think I'd be myself if I didn't.

[faceblocks]

i already did, yeah
kind of made a mess of it at first but we worked it out (i think)?

[opheliac]

yeah? and love leaves u a lot.
so its stupid to throw urself at smth when its only temporary.
it doesnt stick
ppl dont stick
ppl change and nothing stays the same.
so why bother?

un: anonymous, text

[slayerskiss]

Yeah, uhhh. I'm sort of in a similar boat.

Like, three people.

One of them's not here and doesn't feel the same about me, and even if she did there's an ocean of bad blood between us. And then the other two are... complicated.

[unphase]

It does.
But I've found that I can't not love.
I don't have it in me to do so.
And I bother because I want to feel love in return.
I'd like to hope that's not asking too much of the universe.

[unphase]

I'm sorry to hear that.

If one can love two, why not three.

So much bad blood that it can never be mended? And yes, complicated. Love is so very complicated. But the other two are here, I take it?